I have not posted very much for a while now. Life has been kicking my butt. So for my brother's here I thought I'd give you an update on my life. I know, you're on the edge of your seat right?
Okay. I wake up. Eat. Go to work. Come home. Work out. Cook. Eat. Do dishes. Give my wife her meds. Watch TV for 1 orv2 hours. Go to bed. Repeat. Lol.
Exciting, right?
As many of you know my wife has early onset alzheimers. I have committed to keeping her home. She will not see the inside of a nursing home unless something happens to me.
Her mental condition is deteriorating. Some days worse than others. She smokes weed to help with depression. It seems to work pretty well. But her memory is declining.
She can't do anything well, hardly anything for herself any more. She can't cook, clean, pick out her clothes, make her coffee warmth the keurig. She won't bathe unless I get stern with her. She insists she just had a shower. And yes she did, five days ago. LOL. When we watch TV I have to explain everything for her. She can't read very well any more. And this woman used to be the city clerk for a city.
She has recently asked me who I am on several occasions. Once she walked into the house and swore it wasn't our home. I've caught her staring at me in the middle of the night. She said she's trying to figure out if it was me.
I could go on. But you get the picture. She can't even make a sammich any more. Lol
Last night she asked me if she was a burden to me. That she was worthless any more. I explained to her that it was my privilege to take care of her after she took care of me for years. And how lucky I was to be able to show her how much I love her while she is still alive. Then I reminded her our vows were for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health until death. And I'm a man of my word.
She said thank you. Then asked me what day is today? And tomorrow is???
So I've been a bit busy. But I do pop in when I can. Like now when I'm goofing off at work. Lol
Appreciate your wife now. Help her around the house. I never realized how much time and energy goes into cooking, cleaning, laundry, groceries. It's a full time job.
So give your wife some excellent sex tonight. And when she's lying there breathless and flushed with her heart pounding and she asks what brought that on, tell her it's for your buddy George, Roughrydr. Lol
Okay. I wake up. Eat. Go to work. Come home. Work out. Cook. Eat. Do dishes. Give my wife her meds. Watch TV for 1 orv2 hours. Go to bed. Repeat. Lol.
Exciting, right?
As many of you know my wife has early onset alzheimers. I have committed to keeping her home. She will not see the inside of a nursing home unless something happens to me.
Her mental condition is deteriorating. Some days worse than others. She smokes weed to help with depression. It seems to work pretty well. But her memory is declining.
She can't do anything well, hardly anything for herself any more. She can't cook, clean, pick out her clothes, make her coffee warmth the keurig. She won't bathe unless I get stern with her. She insists she just had a shower. And yes she did, five days ago. LOL. When we watch TV I have to explain everything for her. She can't read very well any more. And this woman used to be the city clerk for a city.
She has recently asked me who I am on several occasions. Once she walked into the house and swore it wasn't our home. I've caught her staring at me in the middle of the night. She said she's trying to figure out if it was me.
I could go on. But you get the picture. She can't even make a sammich any more. Lol
Last night she asked me if she was a burden to me. That she was worthless any more. I explained to her that it was my privilege to take care of her after she took care of me for years. And how lucky I was to be able to show her how much I love her while she is still alive. Then I reminded her our vows were for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health until death. And I'm a man of my word.
She said thank you. Then asked me what day is today? And tomorrow is???
So I've been a bit busy. But I do pop in when I can. Like now when I'm goofing off at work. Lol
Appreciate your wife now. Help her around the house. I never realized how much time and energy goes into cooking, cleaning, laundry, groceries. It's a full time job.
So give your wife some excellent sex tonight. And when she's lying there breathless and flushed with her heart pounding and she asks what brought that on, tell her it's for your buddy George, Roughrydr. Lol
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