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Went talk to the girl I was referring to in my previous post. She's hot. Black hair, she does wear heavy pink eye shadow but shes got this thing going with it, has a middle eastern lebanese look to her.
Anyway, went over to the store next to me and started talking played it cool real smooth she was a bit embarrassed I could tell but her name is Kim. another girl came out and started joining in...told them both i'd see them later and looked at kim and said ill see you at the gym.
An hour or two later her boyfriend came to my store looking for me wanting to talk with me. My employee was working (he's a marine) and told the guy he'd let me know that he was looking for me, and that he would tell me Kim had a boyfriend.
Thought I was going to have handle some business, but then the marine told me "this guy was dressed like a teacher maybe 5'5 and kinda nerdy looking. I dont think he knows how big you are lol..."
So now I'm left wondering this:
1) I hit on her and she could tell, was she bothered by it and felt the need to tell her boyfriend, did I creep her out? (I'm not an ugly guy, I get called handsome quite a lot)
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2) Did she go home tell her boyfriend like nonchalantly that some guy hit on her today at work and he was this bodybuilder looking guy, maybe coming off in a way that the boyfriend took as she liked the attention from me, so he felt the need to "pay me a visit" lol
Either way, this girls out.Comment
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Went talk to the girl I was referring to in my previous post. She's hot. Black hair, she does wear heavy pink eye shadow but shes got this thing going with it, has a middle eastern lebanese look to her.
Anyway, went over to the store next to me and started talking played it cool real smooth she was a bit embarrassed I could tell but her name is Kim. another girl came out and started joining in...told them both i'd see them later and looked at kim and said ill see you at the gym.
An hour or two later her boyfriend came to my store looking for me wanting to talk with me. My employee was working (he's a marine) and told the guy he'd let me know that he was looking for me, and that he would tell me Kim had a boyfriend.
Thought I was going to have handle some business, but then the marine told me "this guy was dressed like a teacher maybe 5'5 and kinda nerdy looking. I dont think he knows how big you are lol..."
So now I'm left wondering this:
1) I hit on her and she could tell, was she bothered by it and felt the need to tell her boyfriend, did I creep her out? (I'm not an ugly guy, I get called handsome quite a lot)
OR
2) Did she go home tell her boyfriend like nonchalantly that some guy hit on her today at work and he was this bodybuilder looking guy, maybe coming off in a way that the boyfriend took as she liked the attention from me, so he felt the need to "pay me a visit" lol
Either way, this girls out.
It doesn’t matter. You did what you said you were gonna do, and that’s awesome. Most guys, including me, for some reason have a hard time approaching. It’s just very awkward, but you did it. The results don’t matter.Comment
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Plus women are more sensitive emotionally and ultimately a weaker physical vessel. I've talked to enough girls over the years where it developed and we became something for a little while and they always told me how nervous they were and one even like walked around the store for 10 minutes trying to get the courage to come up and ask me a question about supplements.
And I was a tad on edge too but for them its usually more.
One trick I used to use and sometimes still do is just pretend that I'm not even interested in her and just want to talk to her like shes my sister. It usually gets me on a conversation basis with them and once you're here, you're pretty much in... whatever happens from here is up to how you handle it. But at least you got past the hardest part.Comment
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10 girls one week.
Pick 10 girls over the span of one week to purposely go talk to about anything.
It's actually easier if you go out and do it at clubs or bars. Some guys say purposely go try to get rejected so you get over that feeling like it's the end of the world and you suck. Because that's a real feeling for some dudes but it's only because they literally have talked to like 2 girls in their life and don't know how much is out there.
If you make it your goal and hit 10 you will be like "this aint nothing" and actually have confidence to go out and see how smooth you can be.
I actually got good at talking to girls through a salesman job at a supplement store with a drive thru I had in college. I had to talk to them because it was my job and soon I saw I was getting less awkward each time til I found chicks hitting on me.Comment
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LOL. 66 and a half is not old. Unless you count my hair loss, squeeky joints, stiff back, bad knees, popping shoulders, one kidney, huge prostate, numerous skin cancers, loss of hearing, and some other things i can't remember. If you take that into account, i guess I'm no spring chicken.OFFO
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Being that Im married its been along time even thinking about dating.But I think I agree with the grocery store.Sunday at my local grocery store seems to have the most gorgeous women...omg!!Specifically the produce section😂😂😂Comment
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My question is what would he have said if you were there?
I'd go up to the girl and ask her what was up with the guy, if she seems upset, apologize for upsetting her, if not keep at it.
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