Can someone please tell me how to deal with a huge loss? I"m normally pretty strong mentally but this one has thrown me for a loop.
I had been with my fiance for about a year and a half and about 2 months ago she completely became a different person. I'm fairly sure she cheated on me which would not surprise me considering the past her and her exhusband had for 13 years. They were swingers and I should have known better. I'm not that kind of person and I should have known that if a person lives that lifestyle for that long, they aren't going to change.
My thing is I got so close to her two girls, 7 and 3. I moved them in after about a year and they both were begging to call me daddy.. I break down everytime I think abou it. I know I made the right choice by breaking up with her but it still hurts like a bitch. I also know that time will heal but never all the way. I'll always miss and love them.
It seems like with every friend I talk to about it, I feel a little better. She did so many hurtfull things I can't believe I stuck around for as long as I did. I think that's one of the things that bothers me the most. I'm just glad I found out who she is now rather than after I married her. It's amazing the amount of love you can give someone and then it's just gone.
I guess I just needed to get my feelings out again. If anyone has any other advice other than getting back in the gym, please let me know. I'm just trying to keep myself busy and not think about it.
Thanks bros and sisters. I've missed everyone. But I'm back!!
I had been with my fiance for about a year and a half and about 2 months ago she completely became a different person. I'm fairly sure she cheated on me which would not surprise me considering the past her and her exhusband had for 13 years. They were swingers and I should have known better. I'm not that kind of person and I should have known that if a person lives that lifestyle for that long, they aren't going to change.
My thing is I got so close to her two girls, 7 and 3. I moved them in after about a year and they both were begging to call me daddy.. I break down everytime I think abou it. I know I made the right choice by breaking up with her but it still hurts like a bitch. I also know that time will heal but never all the way. I'll always miss and love them.
It seems like with every friend I talk to about it, I feel a little better. She did so many hurtfull things I can't believe I stuck around for as long as I did. I think that's one of the things that bothers me the most. I'm just glad I found out who she is now rather than after I married her. It's amazing the amount of love you can give someone and then it's just gone.
I guess I just needed to get my feelings out again. If anyone has any other advice other than getting back in the gym, please let me know. I'm just trying to keep myself busy and not think about it.
Thanks bros and sisters. I've missed everyone. But I'm back!!
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