piece on the side

BikerTrash said:
I read alot of your posts when you post and never really comment , And as much as I would like to think im growing up ..
MY GOD this statement IS SO TRUE !!!!!!lol^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
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haha its gotta be hard, if I'm with the same chick for 2 months I am bored. How you guys have done years and years I dunno. More power to ya tho I will have to grow up eventually, but living it up while Im still young
 
After reading through all of this and reflecting on it, I think I may wander off into the woods, get in a fetal position, and blow my head off.
 
I of course am completely against this and why be married if you want someone else? That is an indication that there may be a communication gap in the relationship.
 
There could be alot of different gaps. Could be communication, but people are usually deeper than that. I doubt that sex is the primary driver for extramarital affairs if the peeps having them got real honest about it. They are getting emotional stuff, attention, affection, intimacy etc. Or at least some sort of ego stroke for the self-esteem challenged. As well as their brains fucked out as a bonus. Thats what I think.
 
^^^very good point sex isnt always the reason to have an affair or consider an affair!
 
According to fabolous "the entree just isnt as good without something on the side"

LOL.. jk. I am not a player by any stretch of imagination but I have made mistakes in the past, but as i grow up i realize, i rather be single and do what I want to do , than be with someone and do something that tarnishes my character.

Easy for me to say though since I have never been married or have kids.
 
:wavey: I have an off/on gf whom I've known since 1999. We started out as coworkers and dated for a minute. At the time, she was 20 and I was 37. For years, we were mostly "lovers" when either or both of us were with someone. For the past few months, we've been trying the dating thing again. Although she's 13 years older and about 40 pounds bigger, she still have the body of a HOT pornstar.

Recently though, I've met a hottie who's not that much older than my girlfriend. All that I can say is our first time having sex was like OMFG! Now we're both hooked on each other, maybe more her since she calls me more.

The biggest problem is that test makes it hard to stay faithful sometimes.
 
Mine says she loves me. I'm pretty sure the only person I love is me, and sometimes not even me.
 
Being faithful got me divorced twice and screwed over many times. hell with them if it's hot and attractive, go for it.

But set your limits...out of town only preferably 50 miles at least, never give them your address or correct town even, Use a fake name, if you can, Player's is good, get a throwaway phone, put a coat on it & make sure you see that f*kr flush all the way gone, then flush again. They get the slightest clingy, toss em aside and move on. You get feelings, toss them and move on. Make sure no one is pissed if you fdo a sleep over, never want to wake up with your balls glued to your leg.
 
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bufbiker said:
Mine says she loves me. I'm pretty sure the only person I love is me, and sometimes not even me.
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That's when shit goes South. Love....

They love me for what I am getting out of their dalliance. But won't let go because what I'm getting is worth the risk and the certain catastrophe that lies ahead I think, but has already quietly occurred.

Then I fall in love because of theirs, because it feels good to be loved, especially where's there's never been love.

Then once day no one can look the other in the eye any longer, because love cannot lie, and the slow motion untangling begins. Like an incision that starts at the top of my head and slowly, ever so slowly is cut steadily downward through my whole body, taking years to complete the cut.

Then eternal bleeding if she was the one.

Ahh this is fun. Until next time.....
 
you know my story Oz, I nearly shit canned the best thing in my life, took 5 years of counseling, but today we are having a great run.....I look back and think how shallow I was, but she was young and pretty and saying all the things an aging guy with problems at home wanted to hear. But it wasn't reality, reality is a grind sometimes, but you work hardest for the ones you love... I'll never judge, I'm not living your life...
really really take stock in what you have, look at what life will be like after a break, try to decide what makes you more miserable, life as it is or life splitting time... If you truly feel so aweful in what you have then life is short and you should cut sail, do it clean so that you can stand tall and answer your kids questions honestly... Good luck my friend
 
Just an observation. My father told me a story once. A priest that taught at his high school was this pretty masculine guy. He taught boxing. My father asked him one day how he could live without women. The priest said well you sneak a couple in once in a while. Now that's a priest. I knew him as an old man. He was a good priest too.
 
Used to when I was younger and ended up losing the best girl ever now she's married and everything. But I saw what it did to her and to me in the long run so I don't. Now not saying if it was thrown at me I'd pass but I'm not overly active looking I flirt some but that's it.
 
badger8811 said:
Now not saying if it was thrown at me I'd pass but I'm not overly active looking I flirt some but that's it.
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just curious why it matters if it is thrown at you or you seek it out?

your girl will be just as upset if you cheat either way....
 
Thate said:
just curious why it matters if it is thrown at you or you seek it out?

your girl will be just as upset if you cheat either way....
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For sure I'm saying I just spend time looking for it now if I'm walking out of the gym and one of them pretty much puts it out as hey let's go now yea I'm just not wasting time money and Shit like that . Long run it hasn't been worth it but I walk in a room and there for me to have yea I'm in it.
 
We all want what we cant have.........faithful for 22 years now and damn proud of it, with only a few regrets
 
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