T1DMMA2BB
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- Apr 8, 2013
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Hey Bros, its been a bit since I have made an appearance on the board. With the start of my new business and the divorce I haven't had much time to be in touch. Thought I would post an update.
As far as the gym and my being in shape I have switched gyms to a place closer to me (more expensive unfortunately) but farther from my exs residence which makes my days a little happier not driving to the gym and seeing her house with her new bf's car out front. Back to fitness Im doing well. Up to 235 and leaning out steadily. Slowly but steadily. I think the stress has cause a little slower results but still seeing what I was as far as supps and progress with strength.
The Business is kicking ass. Picked up some super solid accounts and have not needed a second job at all for the last few months just been doing it all with the biz and what not. So I cant complain there.
The divorce. Jesus, someone beer me. Since I have last posted I have hired an attorney that is great. Super aggressive and not forgiving. My ex has contacted him a few times trying to make me look bad by telling him things and his responses are short rude and to the point. She (my ex) has called me in a drunken state telling me things about her new relationship and about herself. I seriously doubt that she even remembers the conversations. But some of the things are her using drugs again specifically coke, being pregnant with her bf's baby and not wanting to keep it and a former mutual friend of ours having sex with her while she was drunk. Best part is he is currently engaged to a girl who is friends with my ex and works with her. Crazy life and I cant say I feel to bad honestly. She chose this life. I think the only issue I am having is this. She is not sure she wants to keep her son (the little boy she had prior to me who I have known since he was 6 months old and who I have raised as my own). She said she feels like she is not a good mother which I would mostly agree with however I do love this little boy. So does my family. The thought of him entering a foster care or being adopted by a family that doesnt know him like I do or my family does makes me very sad. I have thought about asking for custody of him from her. Complete custody where she is not involved. Legit input on this would be appreciated. I know there are a lot of brothers on here who have been through some shit. Wondering your thoughts. Thanks guys.
T1D checking in.
As far as the gym and my being in shape I have switched gyms to a place closer to me (more expensive unfortunately) but farther from my exs residence which makes my days a little happier not driving to the gym and seeing her house with her new bf's car out front. Back to fitness Im doing well. Up to 235 and leaning out steadily. Slowly but steadily. I think the stress has cause a little slower results but still seeing what I was as far as supps and progress with strength.
The Business is kicking ass. Picked up some super solid accounts and have not needed a second job at all for the last few months just been doing it all with the biz and what not. So I cant complain there.
The divorce. Jesus, someone beer me. Since I have last posted I have hired an attorney that is great. Super aggressive and not forgiving. My ex has contacted him a few times trying to make me look bad by telling him things and his responses are short rude and to the point. She (my ex) has called me in a drunken state telling me things about her new relationship and about herself. I seriously doubt that she even remembers the conversations. But some of the things are her using drugs again specifically coke, being pregnant with her bf's baby and not wanting to keep it and a former mutual friend of ours having sex with her while she was drunk. Best part is he is currently engaged to a girl who is friends with my ex and works with her. Crazy life and I cant say I feel to bad honestly. She chose this life. I think the only issue I am having is this. She is not sure she wants to keep her son (the little boy she had prior to me who I have known since he was 6 months old and who I have raised as my own). She said she feels like she is not a good mother which I would mostly agree with however I do love this little boy. So does my family. The thought of him entering a foster care or being adopted by a family that doesnt know him like I do or my family does makes me very sad. I have thought about asking for custody of him from her. Complete custody where she is not involved. Legit input on this would be appreciated. I know there are a lot of brothers on here who have been through some shit. Wondering your thoughts. Thanks guys.
T1D checking in.
