You and your wife have been together for a while now its great your still that into her like that. I hope I find the same thing.
brass pole absolutely sucks if your wifey or girlfriend doesn't know how to use it..
anyone ever seen that episode of "King od Queens"? Kari tried to do a pole dance and ruined that fantasy for Doug forever..
So unless she knows.. You don't want a Pole...
But Sitting in your favoorite chair watching the wifey's body glisten from the sweat.. OOOOOH HELL YEAAAAAAAAAAAA